It amazes me sometimes how different men actually are. Growing up with my father, I assumed women were supposed to be tall, leggy, and have huge tits. After I started dating, only about 25% of the guys I associated with actually went for that. Granted, the ones I ignored were the ones that drooled over poster hotties, but that's beside the point.
I've never actually been happy with my body. Yes, I struggled with anorexia for about 6 years, and losing the amount of weight I did made me happy, but I'd always focus on one thing not being perfect: my boobs. I've always wanted a boob job, since I was in grade school. They just never grew, and what I do have looks horrible to me because of my bouts with my eating disorder. If I had $7k right now, I'd take three weeks of medical leave and get my tits done ASAP. But I don't have that kind of money, and if I did, it probably wouldn't get spent on my tits, but on bills. Life is cruel sometimes.
I've heard many men say that more than a hand- or mouthful is too much or wasted. Well, I'm not feeling myself up, nor am I a lesbian, so I don't know. I do know that my body isn't propotioned correctly because of my breasts (or the lack thereof). I'm not a tiny girl, but I'm not huge either. I'm 5'6 with a mediumly-framed torso. I have wide hipsand a little bit of a ghetto booty. Certain jeans make it look bigger than others.. but a 40" hip measurement is wide for a girl my height, and even if I lose the weight I want, they'd still be big. A 36A bra isn't cutting it by a longshot. Now, I know the difference between proportioned and huge. I'm not looking to get pornstar tits, just larger than I have now.. by like two cups sizes. That would work for me. My husband, however, doesn't agree with me getting implants. He never has, and I doubt he will, but he does want me to be happy with myself, so he says he'll support me. We'll see.
Now I want your opinion. As a guy (or a girl, doesn't really matter to me) how do you feel about boobs in regard to being proportioned and how it affects your sex life? Open discussion, and be honest. It's all chill here.
Life
16 years ago
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I think we've had the boob discussion like a mazillion times but eh boobs are always a good discussion LoL. Now, I have been very fortunate in that area - but mainly they are a bunch of fat and when not in a bra they sag and look terrible. I absolutely hate my breats outside of a bra >_<.
One thing that is worrying me a little is that I'm not loosing much of the boobs, I'm lossing inchs everywhere except there. I'm seriously worried I'm going to still be a DD.
I know complaining about my boobs being too big and you're complaining about yours being too small. I don't think there's anything wrong with you in that area, and we are never fully happy with ourselves. I would hate for you to get a boob job - and then hate them more... you know?
loooong comment - but whatev :P right?
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