Mating Habits

Some people are afraid of change. Others dive into it head-first. Others just like to.. experiment a little. Nothing wrong with that, and if you like it and it doesn't hurt anyone, especially your partner, that's great. So here's a question: how do you avoid hurting the one you love when the two of you can't agree on the experimentation?

Guys don't seem to understand how women analyze things. Say you're a guy in a committed, monogamous relationship, you're madly in love and only want your partner.. but you want something that every guy has that's ever walked the earth has fantasized about from the moment he got his first boner: a threesome. What's funny is, I can see what all the fuss is about. I've thought about being with a girl - not permanently, by any means - and the idea is.. appealing, to say the least. However, women tend to be a little more possessive of their men. We're also seriously into that whole monogamy thing. Go figure.
In a guy's perfect world, the girls would fuck around then do stuff to the guy, the guy and his girl would fuck around and do stuff to the new broad, and then the guy and the new broad would fuck around and so stuff to the guy's girl.. all intermingled, of course. Nothing could be that properly coordinated and not be awkward. However, when faced with the idea of some broad touching what doesn't belong to her, most women don't respond well. But guys don't seem to get this.. so you have to flip it into terms they can understand: how would he feel if you wanted to fuck another man in front of him, whether it had anything to do with him and his sexuality or not?

I got a great response to that point of view. Seriously, he hasn't asked for it sense. Apparently my feelings meant more than a fantasy. Go figure.

My husband and I made a "home video" tonight, and after reviewing it, I realized something: while my husband loves me and tells me I'm beautiful and sexy and worships my body every time we make love.. I hate the way I look. I know I'm never going to look the way I wish I could because of my frame, but I don't have to have as many fat cells hanging around as I do. I just need some serious motivation.. maybe if my husband were more like my father, who has absolutely no qualms about telling an my mom we're overweight. And, just so everyone knows, "overweight" to my father means being anything that's not 5'10" 125lbs with huge tits. Yeah, so with me being only 5'6" and not having the money for plastic surgery, I already lose.

This should be interesting.